Quote of the day
Rather than telling, "You look good in that suit," tell the person, "That suit looks good on you."
- Dale Carneigie
The voice tone and selection of words are very important in any conversation. It can convey right signals and create a positive impression. I don't believe you need to butter people or say good things about them for creating attachment or liking, what you need is genuine interest to listen and talk, give true and honest opinions, be helpful without any hopes.
Great people do it well, I'm trying to get better.